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Bryony Hutt's avatar

Thank you for this, having the worst pain flare I've had in a long time and all these have shown up at some point or other. Needed this reminder to take a breath and be kinder to myself. It's not all my fault. I'm doing my very best.

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Dr. Talia's avatar

You are doing your very best. Exactly <3

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Renee Richardson's avatar

I can't believe I am reading this. Thank you for being able to write so simple and honest. This is exactly me. Huge deal to see it in writing.💚

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Dr. Talia's avatar

I’m glad the post reached you! Big deal for you to be aware of the pattern

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Liz Farmer's avatar

Phew this resonates — I just had the epiphany recently that I experience “chronic pain.” I’ve been navigating pain issues since middle school, but it never dawned on me to label it like that. It’s definitely felt like a messy reckoning! Appreciate your guidance 🫶🏻

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Dr. Talia's avatar

Messy reckonings are tough, hang in there 💗

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Lizzy's avatar

Thank you, needed this with a med change and infection

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Dr. Talia's avatar

Glad it reached you. Best of luck with managing both 💗

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Leeni7's avatar

This is so well done! Our inner monologue is so powerful!!

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Dr. Talia's avatar

It really is!

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Jude Jones (they/them)'s avatar

It’s uncanny how precisely you managed to capture my self-talk! When I’m sick, I blame myself. When I’m fine, I berate myself for taking it easy. When I fail, I berate myself some more. I’m basically a self-berating machine. Somebody turn it off, please!!!

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